Thanksgiving, Christmas and new church law

Throwing a Thanksgiving party is a great way to reach Hungarian kids for 3 reasons:

  1. It’s a holiday that we don’t have and students are interested in learning something new from a different culture.
  2. It’s easy to bring in the Gospel in a meaningful way.
  3. The food is good and kids are hungry!

This event was a good opportunity to team up with the Christian students of the local International School, who took care of the program and did an excellent job. We had fun games, Gospel-presentation, and –again- good Thanksgiving food. I was happy to see those coming who are not committed to our youth, but still have a desperate need for Chirst.

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Christmas outreach

The Christmas outreach was huge, a whole lot greater than I expected. We had over 350 people there, most of whom were the non-believer parents of the kids that come to our Bible clubs in the local secular school. About 90 kids took part in the program and there were 13 performances. Despite the great number, the programme was very exciting, for us especially as Esy sang a solo in a song that was performed by part of our worship team.

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Updates on the new church law

  • We’d been praying for the Constitutional Court to cancel the church law, which it actually did just before Christmas.
  • However, a few days later, on December 30th the Parliament passed the very same law, with some minor changes.
  • As the law did come into effect the government allowed those churches that had already sent in their request to stay like they were to keep their status until the Parliament makes a decision on them, but February 29th the latest. This includes us and 80 more -  from the 380. 
    So here we are with 2 more months and still not sure what’s gonna happen.
    We don’t meet the requirements of the law (1000 members, 20 years of existence in
    Hungary or 100 years internationally) but we’re in discussion with other churches.
    Please, keep us in your prayers.

Ladies’ Event, Baptisms and Teahouse

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[Esy] Every fall we organize an afternoon of spiritual formation for ladies with tea and cookies in the Paulus Outreach Center. This year we invited those who had been believers or had been in touch with us for a long time and had heard the Gospel many times from us. It was a joy for me to work behind the scenes again, coming up with ideas for the decoration and being responsible for the music and video. The theme was “Taste and see that the Lord loves you” – through the story of Leah in the Old Testament, and the personal testimony of the speaker. We got a lot of positive feedback and by my own experience I can say that this fall afternoon turned out to be really good.

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[Sanyesz] There are a lot of new developments in the youthministry, too: three of our youth got baptized recently, one of them was Szabolcs who accepted Christ this spring. I mentioned him in a previous post (Building) as he joined the boys’ Bible-study group. For the first time this year we had a teahouse, and twice as many people showed up as usual – most of them are kids who wouldn’t come for the “regular” youth meetings. One of my non-believer English students brought his band and performed a small concert. It was a mixture of jazz and Hungarian folk music – wow.

Please, pray that God would continue His work in these kids’ lives so that they would have an apetite for spiritual things, too.

Please, also pray that we could take our youth program to the nearby secular high-school as we’ve already started the discussions with the headmaster about the possibility. Also we’d love all the kids with whom we made contact  to somehow come into our youthgroup. Thanks.

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Joakim and me with the kids getting baptized

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Live music and boardgames in the teahouse

Croatia and Sziget

The end of summer turned out to be pretty busy for us. As you could have read in our previous post we’d been invited to the youth camp of the Evangelical Church in Croatia. We’ve heard a lot of Orahovica, the town that hosted the camp, but we’d never been there, yet. Excited to see how a boarding camp works there we packed out stuff and took off. It was really humbling to see the group of 20 leaders who took time off work to serve as volunteers and make the camp possible for the 100 attending kids. It was funny, too, that it turned out upon our arrival that they expected something completely different than what I’d prepared for in advance. So I had to come up with something for the morning workshop sessions, and thank God they turned out to be really great. Each day we had another topic and a group had to prepare a small skit. The audience could jump in the place of one of the characters to ‘fix’ the given problem. These ‘improvisation plays’ proved to be a great tool for teaching as the kids could see by their own eyes whether one attitude works or not. What we also liked in this camp was that we could go as a family and our children had little friends to play with as our hosting family had similar aged sons.P1010029 

 (Not so) serious smallgroup discussion while the others were preparing for the skit

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Everybody is up and ready at the morning briefing

I wasn’t planning to go to this year’s Sziget Music Festival but when I got a call in April that there’s a need for one more person, what’s more a staff leader, I didn’t say no. Why? Such unique opportunities show up to share our faith at the Sziget that would hardly be imaginable throughout the year. Here is a recent story to illustrate my point. I was sitting on a bench at the entrance of our tent waiting for people to come in when a Swedish guy stepped up to me saying “Hi, I’m an Atheist, but I’m fascinated by religions. Would you tell me about your faith?” This is how the hour long conversation with him started. After some time of intellectual debate I came to a point where I could share my personal testimony. At the end of the story he said he was really touched – and I could  also see that his eyes were wet – and that he would certainly continue thinking about this story. However, as usual we had other kinds of dicussions, too, like the time when some guys sat down in the tent to make fun of us and they happened to talk my most tired staff member, and the girl became totally upset by their arrogant and too personal style. We found her crying in the backstage. DSCF6752

Discussions about God by a hot cup of tea in the cold Sziget night

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Debriefing after the night shift (2:30 a.m.)

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If you’re tried, try the giant, comfortable steel-couches :)

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There were plenty of exhibitionists this year, too :)

To sum it up: I still think the Sziget Mission fills a huge gap. There were 385,000 people at this year’s Sziget and about 600-700 came to our tent. Obviously we could only talk to a smaller part of them, but at least we DID represent Christ in this small way. I’d be overjoyed if there was Evangelical mission on the Sziget as they might proclaim Christ more effectively. (I had the impression that a good number of our staff had no idea what the Gospel was) I’m really proud of Esy, who was taking care of our kids while I was serving, but looking at my present schedule I don’t think I could join this mission again. Nevertheless, I’m really happy that Dávid came this year, too, so the next generation seems to take on the responsibility. Finally, I’m happy that we have our Converse! Camp at Paulus that has become a great tool to reach the young people.

English Camps and Converse 3.0

It was so great to work and serve with American teams – teams that had the “know-how” and were extremely well prepared. This year I felt that I was probably better use as I was, too, equiped with the teaching experience of the past years. I was thrilled to see how the schedule evolved and new friendships formed. The most interesting however, was when I ended up in a conversation during one of the classes with two 17 years old guys about meaningful relationships. It was a real breakthrough as I don’t thin we could have ever brought these boy in our youth program, and here they were listening to my “teaching” on dating the Biblical way! God has been working in miraculous ways.

Our personal responsibility was the Converse! English and Sports Camp, and we’d been preparing for it for many many months, both our American partners and us. We definitely had to fine tune the camp since last year. For example we had to limit the number of participants because we’d run out of space in the Paulus Community Center. There were still 93 of us this year, and we ahd other ways and dimensions to grow. One of the greatest improvement of this year was the time named “eye-to-eye” where the American leaders would spend some personal time with 2-3 Hungarian students from their group. The feed-back was extremely positive from both sides and it gave an excellent oppotunity for the American students to share their faith with the Hungarians. Two of the Hungarian girls even accepted Christ – praise God.

The other great change was that by this year’s camp our youth had grown so much in their faith that they took part not only as participants but active helpers. They didn’t just come to have fun, but they wanted to give to their fellow campers.

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The first briefing for the helpers. (The obvious separation of the two teams didn’t last for too long :) )

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The sporting events were held in the gym of the hereby International School.

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Passing waterbombs on the most popular day of the camp, the Water Day.

Would you join us in prayer for those who indicated their desire to accept Christ to follow up on their decision and for every participants to get plugged in our youth program. (As you might remember from last year, there were only 2 people who joined our group long term.)

Please, also pray for us in the following two projects: we’re going to serve in a youth camp in Orahovica, Croatia. My task is to organize the morning workshops in the following topics: school, friends, relationships, faith and calling. After this I’m heading for the training for the Sziget Music Festival and then the Festival itself.

National Evangelical Conference and summer preparitions

So many things have been happening in the past month and half – it seems much longer than that.

Our youth was invited to join the national youth conference of the MEE (Hungarian Evanglical Church) and I was assigned to do the teaching. A good number of about 40 kids came together from 5 places countrywide. It was a great time of fun, worship, fellowship and learning. I taught on the will of God and lead the Saturday morning workshops and I asked Dávid, my young helper to do a small training on how to do evangelism.

This conference was special to me because one of the groups was from a gypsy church and it’s up-lifting to see different ethic groups worship the same Lord together in the setting of recent ethnic tensions in Hungary (read more on these tension here).

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One step closer to moving to Diósd

It’s been more than a year now that we decided to move to Diósd and put our condo to the market. It wasn’t an easy decision, but we had to make it anyway as our distance from the community of Diósd came to be unmanagable in our situation. So far we haven’t been able to sell our place, the estate-business is pretty much dead here. However, a few months ago a former classmate of mine from high-school called me and said that he was going to build a house in Diósd and told me about the piece of land next to them that was for sale. So we felt this was our chance and after a time of prayerful consideration and taking advice from a number of people we signed the contract and bought the lot with help for 1/3 of the market price!

For sure it’s still a long way until we’ll be able to move in, but we know that everything is possible with God. Now our prayer is to be able to get the paperworks done as soon as possible and to sell our condo by next spring.

Getting ready for the summer camps

I had my last English classes last week and now our primary focus is the youth and the summer camps. Bellow is our schedule frame for the summer. Please, remember us in your prayers throughout the season.

June 20-24 English Camp Teacher help
July 1-3 Youth Camp Training for Converse
July 4-8 Converse! English and Sport Camp Head organizer
July 14-17 Church Camp Organizing the fun time
July 18-22 English Camp 2 Teacher help
Aug 1-6 Youth Camp in Croatia Speaker
Aug 7-15 Sziget Music Festival Evangelism

Walt Disney Marathon and others

Thank you for your prayers regarding our latest venture: the Walt Disney Marathon. The project was about watching Disney cartoons for 12 hours, something fun and challenging where the kids can invite their non-believer friends to. This was the first time we did an event like this, so we didn’t know what to expect. However, 20 kids showed up, a couple of non-believers, some of them heard the Gospel for the first time – as part of our introduction in between two of the movies. Please, pray that the sown seeds would bear their fruit.

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The preparitions

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The “silver-screens” in action

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Who wants to be a Winnie the Pooh – the Disney-quiz

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The Disney-figure contest

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Discipleship

As we finished the follow-up with the boys, we started a series on what it means to be a follower of Christ as part of the Bible-study curriculum. They seem to enjoy it and as the group gets to know each other more, we can go deeper and deeper. I’ve started meeting with one of the older guys, Bálint, as he indicated that he’d accepted Christ during the fall. We’re going through our follow-up material to make sure we’re on the same page. He wants to be a doctor so I feel responsible in influencing him for Christ, as he’ll play a keyrole a hundreds of people’s lives in the future.

Birthday

It was fun to celebrate my birthdays together with our son, Joakim. I know it’s cliché, but it’s so unbelievable how fast time flies and how fast these kids grow. We frequently praise God for these undeserved, cute gifts. 

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Building

Thank God, Miklós, the biologist from our church, managed to come as scheduled to give his lecture on Creation (Feb. 25th). It was interesting to listen to a professional talking about the structure of living cells and the coded information that describes the attributes of living things. Too bad that not many of the youth could come so there were only 15 of us including the junior high group. However, it felt really great when one of the non-believer guys approached with the request that he wanted to get the presentation for himself, beaceuse he had found it useful and wanted to use the material for a Biology contest. P1010077

Since then we’ve covered topics like “Archeology and faith”, “Time spent with God” és “Nationalism vs. Love for the country”. Though a couple of non-believers have been showing up on a regular bases this month, I would say that for March our focus was building and training our youth.

March started with the Proverbs Project, which aimed at the development of our kids Bible knowledge. In the 31 days of this month they have to read 31 chapters of Proverbs, and share the most important thought from each day preferably in their own words. This is a new thing that we try, and we also included facebook in the project, as the youth can post their observations on the Youth Club’s discussion board. It’s really fascinating to their enthusiasm in doing this!

Beside the Bible study group for girls that has been running for many months now finally we managed to get the boys Bible study group going this month. It’s before the regular youth meetings on Fridays. To our great surprise – and joy – almost everyone could come who we had invited including two non-believer guys: Laci and Szabolcs.

Plans:

On April 1st, while the men go on a men’s retreat, the girls from the youth are having a payamas party in the Outreach Center, where they invite their non-believer friends, so we’re praying for opportunities to share their faith with them. We’re planning a 12 hour Walt Disney Marathon, which is a great opportunity to invite unchurched kids. We’re giving a Gospel presentation is one of the breaks between the movies. Please, pray for all these events and the Converse English and Sports Camp as we’re in the planning phase with full steam.

US trip and Mars/Venus – an ‘old’ hit

Sanyesz has just returned from a funding team building trip from the US. In these two weeks he and Janos were able to meet with a great number of friends (those who had already been to Hungary and some hadn’t, yet) and shared about their ministry to a lot of churches and small-groups in 4 cities (Atlanta GE, Birmingham AL, Lookout Mountain TN, St. Louis MO). The goal of the trip was to invite 13 individuals, families or churches to join our support team with a monthly $100. This is the amount that would be needed for us to be able to go back to full time ministry. We’ve only heard back from a couple of people so at this point it would be hard to say whether this need was met or not. It was hard as a family to be apart for 2 weeks, but at least Esy had a chance to meet with her friends, and also spent a few days at Sanyesz’s parents. Dear Friends, thank you so much for making this great journey possible!

Life didn’t stop back at home while we were away… The student ministry team did a great job by organising an outreach based on the theme that we had used successfuly a long time ago in college, and which is based on the Gospel and a book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus by John Gray. It was a great final event for our long series of teachings on relationships. 40 people showed up and about a 3rd of these were unbelievers. It’s thrilling to think about this many people coming to hear about what we, Christians had to say about this controversial topic.

Please, pray for our next event on 25th Feb. A biologist from our church is invited to share about Creationism and it will definitely blow the kids’ mind away as in Hungarian schools the deceptive theory of Evolution is taught exclusively.

Banana Night and Regional Youth Christmas

We’re thankful for the growth we’ve been experiencing in the youth club – as the fruit of your prayer and support!

G62 – Student Ministry Team

The goal to have students be more involved in the life and ministry of the Youth Club arrived at a new level, when we started the G62 (based on Galatians 6:2) the student ministry team made up of 5 enthusiastic students. We’ve concluded the 6 session training with them, and now we use our regular Monday night meetings to plan the weekly youth meetings and the special events – like the Banana Night.

Banana Night

As part of the G62 training we had our student leaders to organize a special event, namely the Banana Night in November. The goal was to invite un-churched kids, who had never been at our youth meetings. The dress-code was “yellow” and the ‘entrance fee’ was a banana. We had a lot of fun, and at the summit of the event we invited the kids to the regular youth meetings. About 40 people showed up and a couple of them have been coming since the event.

Follow-up

A few weeks ago a new Bible-study group was started to teach the basics of the Christian life to those who had accepted Christ in the past few months. We’re right in the middle of this  six-step follow-up study and the 4 students and 2 G62 kids attend regularly – the latter to be able to do follow-up themselves in the future.

Regional Youth Christmas

The latest challenge is the Regional Youth Christmas which is a gathering of the nearby suburban youthgroups organized by our youthgroup. This coming Friday we’re expecting 60 kids to celebrate Christ coming to us in a tea-house setting, with worship, thought-provoking presentations and fellowship, fellowship, fellowship. Please, pray for this event.

Next year…

Please, also pray for us as we’re planning the coming year. We have a lot to thank God for, and looking forward to see His mighty hands at work through the Youth in Diósd…

New semester – new setup

We’d been planning for a long time take a bigger part in ministry, and we did step out in faith in September. I gladly prestent to you that the time we spent in “official” ministry was increased from 1 day a week to 3, and the time spent teaching was reduced to 2 days. However, this move is pretty much theoretical for two reasons: #1 our support level is not sufficient YET to devote this much time to ministry, #2 the number of my classes a week was only reduced by 6, so for now it would probably better to talk about “schedule optimization”.

Thanks to the summer camps some new people were added to our youthgroup. Our prayer is that they would get to know Christ in the course of this year. We had a celebration a few weeks ago, when 2 of our youth were baptized. Our goal for the year is that those who already follow Christ would get a lot of opportunities to serve Him, too, so we started a ministry team from our youth. I envision them as the future ‘engine’ and rolemodel for the rest of the youth. We started meeting weekly, and currently we’re giving them training about who we are, what we want and how to reach our goals. At the youthmeeting we divided the team according to their ages (mid-school: 11-13 ys – where the leader is János, and 14-18 ys – where I lead), so we can provide for their different needs. 

The beginning of this semester was extremely hard for me as one of the pillars of the youth, whom I counted on a great deal, and whom I considered as a possible future youthpastor had left to help another ministry. However, where one door closed, God opened another one. Dávid, who you could have read in my Sziget account decided to commit himself in serving in the church more, and specifically in the youth group.  He jump right into the work and has accomplished much in this 1.5 months (e.g. we have a webpage now :) )

So God has blessed us with a fresh, enthusiastic team, and I hope this is going to ‘rev up’ the youthministry in the coming months.

Family things: we’d like to move to Diósd, but we’ve been unable to sell our condo in the past 6 months. We know that all is possible to God. One of the benefits would be that Esy could participate more in the life of the church and the kids could be more with their little friends. :)

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